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🇩🇪 Stuttgart

Germany

A city of engineers, and what engineers accept last

German, in the Swabian dialect
Temperate, cold winters
Mostly engineers, researchers and technical students
High

Stuttgart is the heart of German automotive and engineering industry, and a large number of Iranians here are engineers or researchers. In a culture where problems are solved by analysis, accepting that some things are not solved by analysis takes its own time.

Stuttgart - A city of engineers, and what engineers accept last

Swabian culture and social distance

The Swabian region is known for being sparing with words, orderly and reserved. A neighbour who has lived beside you for ten years may never ask how you actually are. This is not unkindness; it is a different form of respect for privacy. To somebody arriving from a high-contact Iranian culture it feels cold and rejecting.

Knowing that difference matters, because many people read that coolness as a sign that they personally have not been accepted, when it has nothing to do with them.

When an analytical mind does not help

Many engineer clients say they have spent years trying to solve their problem: read the books, made the plan, changed the habits. When that did not work, they concluded the fault was in them.

Anxiety and depression are not engineering problems. Working on them requires a relationship, not a solution. For a lot of people that simple point is where the change starts.

Insurance-covered treatment in Baden-Wurttemberg

The process is Germany's national one, and the wait for a therapist with a contract licence runs to several months. Finding one who also speaks Farsi is, in this state, effectively impossible.

What Farsi-speaking newcomers in Stuttgart find hardest

Regional cultural reserve, and the difficulty of forming close relationships

Trying to solve emotional problems with analytical methods

Long working hours in industry

Social isolation, particularly in the first years

No Farsi-speaking therapist available locally

A relationship where you do not have to prove anything

In a therapy session you are not expected to present a problem or arrive with a solution. You are expected to talk and to be heard, in the language you think in.

Emotral's therapists speak Farsi and the sessions are entirely online.

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